Thursday, October 25, 2012
Katelyn
I will always tell my friends or whoever I speak to of how difficult it was when I was pregnant with her. When comparing notes on nausea or "morning sickness", I can tell one I had the full works: migraine, flu, this is classic - 'facial congestion?", food poisoning, frequent feeling of faint due to low blood pressure, heartburn, very-very bad case of varicose and spider veins, lost of appetite due to nausea (could not down anything else except for RIBENA), no coffee, no tea, no MILO, no milk, sometimes I could take Nestum or Horlicks but most of the time was just RIBENA. Could not eat much as I had nausea till the last trimester of my pregnancy. Man, that was difficult.
However, as we waited patiently for her, I couldn't help but often wonder how she would look like. I suppose this will always be a REAL surprise as I will never know how my kids would look like until that magical moment after the last push, where we will finally meet face to face.
I have to admit that I was really excited and have been waiting for her for the longest time. Of course we had our fair share of ups and downs in between Ethan and having her. However, her arrival into our lives is really God's plan and God's promise of mercy and love. When we found out the gender, I basically was a little apprehensive and worried as we committed ourselves financially over some huge spending. But God's promise of providence and abundance flowed into our lives that I didn't have to buy much baby essentials for her as we were blessed with a wonderful neighbor who gave us everything pink anyone mother could think of. (I have a pink baby potty, pink toy vacuum cleaner, pink pajamas, pink clothings.... and the list goes on). I truly believe it was the gracious Lord working.
However, preparation was tedious as I had to get baby stuffs washed and cleaned up, and the house to tidy up.
Anyway, these are some details I would like to remember and perhaps could even tell Katelyn when she grows up.
Due date : 18 Dec 2011
and so,..
on the 1st Dec 2011,
an appointment was schedule with my gyne, Dr Fong for a regular check-up. Was timing my contractions and thought they were quite strong. Counted them, and it was somewhat consistent. Once in every 15-20 mins. He had a busy as usual, and so i told the nurses i was having contractions. once in every 20 mins or so. However, I was still fine. Drama happened when I was told to go to the labour ward. Gee, shouldn't have done so. They strapped me into the CTG machine to check on my contractions. Sure enough, there were contractions. However, there were not as strong. Checked my dilation, about 2 cm. So, I was just resting on the bed, not doing anything in specific. The ultimatum came from my gyne, to be admitted into the labour ward for "observation". Urgh... I didn't think it would be like this as tomorrow (2nd dec) would be Ethan's birthday and of course I would like to be with him instead. However, the gyne took no chances but stood firm on this decision. To be admitted for observation.
2nd Dec 2011
Woke up, and hubby came by after breakfast. I could take "home leave" to sort out my work in the office, and later went home for lunch and spend a short birthday afternoon with my only child (then), he was my world. I remembered it being really emotional for me because it will soon be him and "a sibling" and no longer him ONLY anymore. Ethan had been the only one in our lives for the past 3 years. I has been really-really good with just him. We traveled, we did things together as a family of 3, we had simple meals and it wasn't hard at all. I have to say he was all we ever wanted. However, now that The Lord decides to bless us with another member in the family, I am truly humbled and couldn't have asked for more.
3rd Dec 2011
Took another home leave. This time, we went over to SS2 Mall to celebrate dear Chloe's 1st birthday. Those who attended the party were rather surprised to see my appearance. And so I had to explain to them, that I was actually on home leave. The hospital was actually still monitoring me. It was a good outing for me, also taking my mind off the whole going into labour process. We brought Ethan to the birthday party as well, and boy, of course he enjoyed himself thoroughly. This boy loves outings, any sorts. And after a good 3 day of hospitalization, the 4th day was right on the dot - 38 weeks into my pregnancy. At 7pm, when I reported back to my "temporary suite", the nurse on duty told me that my gyne is suggesting that I should be induced as I had dilation and also irregular contractions. It will be the following day, 4th Dec. I was quite hesitant, but also anxious as I didn't know how long I will have to stay in the hospital. I agreed.
4th Dec 2011
7am - the nurses came into my room broadly smiling and asking if all was good with me. Had the tastiest jam and wholemeal bread for breakfast (didn't quite understand why it tasted so good), and then they got my to change to the hospital gown, ready for labour room check-in. Gee, it felt scary and at the same time relief as baby I knew baby was finally coming today. At 8am in the labour room, the nurse came in, all cheery on a nice Sunday morning, told that they will insert the laxative for me to past motion. In less than 3 minutes, I was in the toilet, passing out my nice strawberry and butter sandwich. Soon, they brought in their ..... And I saw my old friend, a pint of pitocin. Somehow, I have developed a love hate relationship with it. I hate it as it caused me so much pain while being induced when delivering Ethan. Love it as it really helped with escalating the dilation and labour process. Gee. I wondered how bad it'll be this time round as again, I opted for no epidural. They started Pitocin at 9am, with a slow 5mU/min. I was still looking around, talking to hubby and SMILING. At 10 am, I was 4 cm dilated. They increased it to 10 mU/min. I could feel it coming, not the baby but the pain! 11am, apparently my gyne instructed them to increase it to 15 mU/min. I was 5.5cm dilated. The pain was kicked in, and I was praying under my breath. At 12 noon, I was crying, screaming and yelling. Progress was slow, pain was unbearable, no signs of labour yet. Oh dear Lord. I could not hold it any longer. I was already thinking about what-it .. C-section? Screaming on top of my lungs for another hour. Finally, I was asked to push, at about 1.15pm. My gyne was supposedly on his was as he was having lunch. At 1.54pm, she finally came out. And there is she, my precious precious darling. Katelyn Chong Xin Yi.
Born, 4th December 2011
Weighing 2.97kg.
Her birthing story...
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Lego time!
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Ethan at 18 months
daddy car
car key
yiyi car
kick ball
cut cake (yiyi has been baking and icing for the past 4 weeks and therefore we had to cut and eat her beautifully decorated cake for the past month)
a, d, she
one, the, tee
a, d, she, d,e, e, g…
We found out that he is able to self feed, but seriously messy. I think we should be making him feed himself more often. And the one time when we gave him a spoon to scoop some mini ice cream cup, he took it with his left hand...uhoooo. so we kinda think he is a leftie.
He loves to eat... we're not really sure if he eats well and if he is eating enough... but sometimes he does eat my kind of portion. On a typical weekday over at the grandma's, he would start off the day with a bottle of 200ml milk, then a huge bowl of cereal for breakfast. For lunch, he would either get a huge bowl of ABC pasta, soup noodle or porridge. He has tea between 4-4.30 and he gets 2 mini pods of yogurt, and 1 kiwi fruit or a banana or sometimes a slice of bread with cheese. Then for dinner, he gets another huge bowl of pasta or porridge.
That's alot isn't it? I don't think I eat as much and as frequent.
Anyway, the drama happens when are on the dining table.
For example:
Eating Mangoes.
Now that it's the mango season.. not sure it is but we have been getting good mangoes, my little champ and I have been feasting on mangoes.
Last night when I asked if he wanted mangoes ... and he started saying ango, ango ango... angoooOOOOOOOO, angoooooooooOOOOOOOOOO, ANGOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO... and so
I took out the mango, showed it him and he went ANGOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..
And so I had to say WAITTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT, mummy cut and give! And he replied... "pissss".
10 minutes later he was giggling.
More dramas...
Butter Cheese
Last weekend, hubby and I thought we should just have the old fashion favourite breakfast at home before we head off the day with heaps of activities lined up - back to back! We tossed 2 slices of whole meal bread in the toaster, I had a cup of coffee while hubby had a cup of tea. Then I took the butter dish and a bottle of strawberry preserves to go with the toasts. Ethan was on his highchair next to us eating his cereal. When we opened up the butter dish, he looked at the dish and screamed cisssssssshhh... cisssssssssshhhhhhhhhh... reached out to the dish and screamed cishhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!! Hubby and I looked at each other, and we looked really puzzled because there weren't any cheese on the table. And for the loudest time, he looked at the dish and yelled CISHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH..... and then hubby and I cracked and laughed... Our smartest 18 month old wanted to eat a block of butter because it looked like a block of creamy juicy cheese! And obviously he didn't get the any cheese or butter that morning!
Bedtime stories
So far, we have been quite lucky with this little dynamo because he can actually sleep anywhere, at anytime, and at any position when is tired. And so we learned the trick. To have him do all sorts of activities to zap off his energy during the day and so hubby and I could have some quite time at night. And right now, his bedtime routine will start off hubby giving him warm wash and wipe down, change into his pajamas and finally he gets to choose a book for bedtime stories. Sometimes we will all jump into bed together for bedtime stories. I love it when daddy reads "We're going for a bear hunt"! Funny thing is it's ideal that he goes to sleep (or rather we all go to sleep) after ONE book... but hey no. Our part-time night owl sometimes insist we read the same book a zillion times before he hits slumberland. So what happens when daddy is zonked and mummy is busy ironing, we just chuck in one of his favourites and he will be "reading" his book, and I mean "reading" out LOUD. And sigh, after ironing a mountain load of clothes, I find my tot snoring, with the book next to his mouth and half of it wet! Obviously he has been experimenting if he could potentially chew up the book and swallow it like one of his teething biscuits.
Friday, July 09, 2010
The Green Monster Model
And only on hot days like these, my husband will walk around the house topless. He doesn’t do that often, but when he does, the weather’s really bad! And so I had this brilliant idea of having Ethan walk about the house topless just like daddy, and also since it was SO SO SO HOT.
So after his bath, I put on his diaper and he happily paraded around the house half naked. As I was admiring him striding up and down the house, I thought to myself, my little champion will do a good model.. ahhh… thought I should get hubby to see how well Ethan modeled and perhaps we could get him into some baby talent agencies. Hmm…
???
Thursday, July 08, 2010
apricots and still holding on
Simultaneously, Ethan is down with some kind of viral fever.
We took his temperature last night and it was a whooping 39! Panicked, we started him on paracetamol. Fever came down, phew. And apparently, Ethan was talking in his sleep the whole of last night. Hubs heard him talking most of the night as he couldn't sleep due to terrible aches and pains. And this morning, he woke up with a deafening scream. I looked out the window, it was still dark. Checked the clock, 5am. Urghhh... I held him close and he was feeling extremely warm. So we gave him another dose of paracetamol. 10 minutes later, he gave this awful look that he was going to throw up. He did. And obviously he felt much better after that and went back to sleep.
Later this morning, he was again having another round of fever. We decided to bring him see the pediatrician. When consulted her, she discovered that his right eardrum was a little red/flushed. And therefore, she concluded that he might be having an ear infection? That was something I never expected... I was expecting to hear something along the lines of.. hand, foot and mouth disease (as both our God children Ethan Zac and Kristen are down with HFM) or even dengue. Nevertheless, we are rather thankful should it be just a mere ear infection. We will confirm this in the coming Saturday because should his fever persists, we will need to draw out some blood for platelets count. Poor boy.
And so, to make sure that he is well hydrated, we kept the fluids going. In the evening after dinner, we gave him half a cup of diluted juice, an hour later half a cup of milk and another half a cup of water. In the midst of that, he was eyeing on my tub of apricots which I happened to be munching on. And he was eagerly asking for them! So I gave him a bite, and he asked for another, and another and soon it was 3 apricots. I was utterly shocked to see him like apricots.. and he calls it, a-pi-cot.
And while I was out hanging dry my washing (the stained sheet compliments of Ethan), I could hear him shouting and screaming in the house. To my surprise, he was prancing and dancing in the house with daddy. Clowns!
Anyway, the lights are out now but he is still pretty much awake in his cot. I'm dead tired but still holding on. I thougtht I should pen this down to remind me that motherhood is not all about laughters, joys, and apricots. It's really testing during times like this. I feel like breaking down but I know i will have to hold on. I trust that the Lord will provide just right and i'm hoping and praying that both hubs and Ethan will get well real soon.
I'm secretly hoping to watch the Spain vs. Germany game later at 2.30am but I'm already half asleep. Looks like I'll have to resort to the 7am news tomorrow morning.
Mannn, I'm loving motherhood.
Friday, July 02, 2010
flash-blocks
I am just overwhelmed by Ethan's object to words recognition development. I don't remember if I could do all these at the age of 3? I wonder if it's all these formula he's taking?!? ie: 4 times DHA and etc. Sigh, he's growing up really fast. Sometimes I feel like I'm missing out in his growing years, especially this past year. His growth and development has be exponential, really.
Nevertheless, we are just so proud of him!
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Central Park
It was a beautiful and blissful Sunday morning indeed!
Monday, June 14, 2010
the reunion
Monday, April 12, 2010
Friday, March 26, 2010
Miso Soup, Chawanmushi and Rice
He simply loves it, the old-fashion miso soup and rice.
Ethan Say....
Apple – Apple
Car – Car… car car
Cat – Cattttttttttttt
Caterpillar – CAT
Pear – pear
Cocoon – ca-oon
Butterfly – a-a-fy
Banana – ba na na
Yogurt – gurt gurt
Gorilla – eh eh ah
Red balloon – ed-alloon
Elephant – el-le-hant
Computer – cong-u-te
Thank you – ank u
Handphone – hung phone
Escalator – ah ah lay eh
Kakak wait – kak kak a ti
Yiyi – eh eh
Por por – por por
Ku por – kuh por
Daddy – ady
Mummy - ….
I should be really proud of him for being able to communicate a bunch of words at just slightly over a year old.. but, sigh, he just doesn't say mummy (unless he is really in distress, which I've probably only heard... about 3 times?!)
I'm depress.
Monday, March 08, 2010
12.48am
We recently went to Hong Kong and left Ethan’s best friend there. His best friend, 'the monkey' was given to him by uncle Zuhun when I went over to Sydney last year. However, what makes this little primate special is that it’s a custom-made soft toy promoting the Orang Utans for the Sabah Tourism.
This monkey has some calming effect on Ethan especially during bedtime. He has to hug it to sleep every single night and the fact that we brought it over to Hong Kong was to make sure he had this comfort item with him. How idiotic of me not to check his cot before I send the luggage down for check out.
Sunday, March 07, 2010
Ethan turns 1
Date : 28 November 2009
Venue : The Paddington House of Pancakes
This is a delayed entry as my little one turned 1 December last year. It was all smiles and laughters at the little party held in The Paddington House of Pancakes, The Curve. We prepared him months (well, maybe 1 month) in advance singing him the traditional birthday song and putting on the “Mickey Party” hat. And yes, you have guessed it right, he loves Mickey. His first Mickey was given to him by his Uncle Chee Wah and Aunt Elaine from Singapore. I have to acknowledge that this whole Mickey thing is not just a marketing gimmick or what not, the character is actually something children just love. I remember my first Mickey, and I bet you had yours.
I would have loved to bake Ethan's first birthday myself, except I couldn't stand the mental pressures of "what-if-the-cake... ". Therefore, after a long domestic discussion, we got this beautifully decorated 2 tier Elmo Birthday Cake. Contradictorily, we wanted Mickey birthday cake instead, but was told that the cake designer makes Elmo better than Mickey. And so, this was how we ended up with the 2 tier Elmo cake. Surprisingly, we ended up liking the Elmo cake. In fact, everyone did!
It was a blast for the little man as he saw many familiar faces. I am humbled and blessed to have almost all of our family members, relatives and close friends attend our little one’s first birthday. Of course he had people who couldn’t make it but have sent greetings, cards, presents and prayers.
When I look back at Ethan’s first birthday, what struck me really, was the one year of journeying with him in our lives. He has taught me to laugh at little things, smile at small accomplishments, and understand the fact that teaching takes immense patience while learning takes time. He has also taught me patience, perseverance, determination, unconditional love and most of all, to accept and love imperfections as it is. I love him to bits and I thank God for this little miracle.
Sunday, February 21, 2010
Goodnight
moon...
However, one thing he found comforting was this magical book, “Good Night Moon” by Margaret Wise Brown. I remember one night when he was acting up quite a bit, we read him this book. It calmed the weeping eyed almost immediately. And in one of those pages, it reads:
And henceforth, we will get the sweetest smile from him when we do the:
We bought this book even before he was born and it’s been his best friend even till now. He somehow finds comfort from these reassuring words in the book and he has never once said no to his cow jumping over the moon.
Travelling Across South China Sea
We went back for a good friend’s wedding, also an opportunity to meet up with the other side of his family.
Friday, February 19, 2010
Sunday, November 08, 2009
I missed him
Had a huge weekend, was out and had issues in the family. So I had to quickly pack for the week. While I was packing and cleaning up, I'd occasionally stopped by to blow him kisses or hugs. At one point, he felt a little warm. I disregarded it and went on doing my own stuffs. (WELL, I disregarded it because Ethan is generally warm. Anyone will love hugging him because he is always nice and warm).
He wasn't himself later part of the evening. Checked with Adrian to see if we needed to give him a dose of parmol. Well, Adrian gave a go and we syringed a 2.5ml for him. He likes parmol. I think he likes medicine in general. There are sweet and normally "cold" from the fridge.
Later brought him up to the room and put him in his cot. He was pleased to see his cot and gave a huge smile. Placed him inside, and I quickly took my bath knowing that he is unwell and will need to rock and put him to sleep. Came out from the shower and saw him sleep soundly in him cot, curled up.
I felt bad for not being able to be there when he is not feeling all that good. However, I'm thankful that he went to sleep after all. I was expecting another rough night, probably due to his teething issues. I hope he'll feel better tomorrow.
I guess, I just missed him,... by a couple of minutes?!? He is sound asleep now. And so I will be as well...
Good night.
Wednesday, November 04, 2009
"Ethan the Builder" in the tub
Yes, the black spot is done on purpose. Can't be showing my son's pride and glory to the whole world can I?
And yes, he loves his bath!
Monday, October 26, 2009
Ethan's First Rusk
We gave Ethan his first Farley's Rusk when he turned 8 months old. We are pretty conservative and very much playing safe when introducing any form of solids to him.
These Rusks can be introduced to infants at/around 6 months old. However, we will try as much to delay introducing new delights for him to build better immunity and resistance. Not sure how much he will gain from this though. But sigh, as first time parent, will try to be as 'careful?!Q?!' as we can be. Just a note of consolation, he has been fine with most food we have given him so far.
We are quite pleased to be able to capture his first biscuit moment. From the first picture to the last one seen in his hands, 7 minutes.... and that's my son!
Picture taken on the 31 August 2009
1st picture: 4:37:56 PM
Last picture: 4:45:30 PM
Ethan's yiyi
This picture was taken in an open air restaurant in Seremban. Food was top notch but the it wasn't the most baby friendly place. However, Ethan's yiyi could actually find a comfortable position to feed our little friend. That's pure nanny-ing skills. SALUTE!